FAQs

  • When should I RSVP?

    Please RSVP by August 12 using the RSVP tab on our website.

  • Will the ceremony be inside or outside?

    Weather permitting, we’ll be outside for the ceremony. The reception will be inside.

  • Will there be transportation?

    Transportation will be offered on the day of the ceremony and reception. Please see the Travel & Lodging tab on our website for more information.

  • Is parking available?

    The Upchurch offers ample parking for guests, including accessible parking and a ramp. For the welcome party at Weldon Mills, there is a parking deck directly across the street. For the farewell brunch at Tom and Loretta’s house, please park along their driveway.

  • What's the dress code?

    Cocktail is the dress code for our ceremony and reception. Heel-wearers, please note that the ceremony will be on grass, so block heels might be your friends! Welcome drinks on Friday is dressy casual, and the farewell brunch on Sunday is casual/come as you are.

  • Are Friday and Sunday's activities required?

    We would love to see you all weekend, but our welcome party and farewell brunch are entirely optional!

  • What will the weather be like?

    North Carolina weather is unpredictable! Early October weather is typically still warm with temperatures ranging from 70’s in the day to 50’s in the evening. Be sure to check the forecast before you pack your bags to come see us! If it rains, we’ll be inside for both the ceremony and reception.

  • What if I have a food allergy or a dietary restriction?

    You’ll be able to provide any food allergies and/or dietary restriction details once formal invitations are sent and RSVP information becomes available on this site.

  • Can I bring a plus one?

    Individual RSVPs will indicate whether additional guests are welcome.

  • What if I have a question that isn't on here?

    We’re happy to answer any additional questions! Feel free to ask away at adria.gunter@gmail.com and/or aaron.weber.x@gmail.com.